A Life of Honour

My grandfather Late Sadananda Sarmah (who we lovingly called as ‘Kaka’) was a very sincere, smart, and kind man who grew up in a small town in upper Assam and built his life and career across various regions before settling down permanently in Guwahati. Kaka was an award-winning police officer (President's Medal,1980) from the Assam Police Service, and his gallantry was well-known in his circles. 

I am Kaka's first grandchild from his only daughter (Sewali Sarmah). Growing up, both Kaka and Aaita played a very important role in our lives. They occupied the front seat to witness all my early achievements and were very vocal about what they expected from me. Their expectations always fuelled my aspirations, and for that I'm forever indebted. Kaka used to visit our home at Silpukhuri quite frequently, and we spent so many beautiful moments together. I've been told that Kaka taught me to walk & run, but I'd like to believe that he also taught me how to lead a life of dignity, hard work, and kindness. Kaka was with me at all my important life events - first day of school, every big exam, awards, first job, first overseas business trip, my wedding, and to celebrate the birth of both my sons. 

 

Kaka was an avid reader, and his planning & organisation skills were second to none. My mother inherited those skills from him, and I inherited from her. Kaka was so sincere that he even planned some key aspects of the days "after" his death and has written down several notes for family members. He really was a rare gem.

I always wished that he could travel the world with me, but his health never permitted. We regularly communicated via video calls and he saw many places through my eyes (pictured above at The White House during my trip in 2022). 

Kaka loved politics, economics, history, and sports, and could talk about any topic under the sun. He was a quiet man, but his mind was full of ideas; he had so many dreams and aspirations even during his final years. 

I met Kaka in October this year when his health deteriorated drastically, and I knew that I might not see him again. He was very content during his final days, and I promised to myself that I would do anything to carry forward his legacy to my kids and theirs. He has truly lived a life of honour. We miss you, Kaka!