Monday, November 23, 2009

2 States ---- Love conquers all


Just finished reading "2 States". Yet another victory of Chetan Bhagat. Yes, he has managed to click with the Indian readers again.

I'm not typically a CB fan. His vocab is rather simple, not the typical "writer" types. But there is a hidden beauty in his writing, it appeals instantly, its readable, and understood by all. His writing reminds me of J.D Salinger (the author of "The Catcher in the Rye"), simple, ordinary, with a dash of salt and pepper ;)

Coming back to "2 states", I could relate very well to this story, the reverse way in my case.

My boyfriend comes from a Tamil brahmin family, and I from an Assamese brahmin family. The combination is rather strange, but not impossible.

Nothing is impossible, love conquers all. This might sound corny, but true it is. Yet another college love story, yet another clash of cultures, languages, festivals, "FOOD HABITS" etc. etc. the list is long, the only commonality is "LOVE". I find such love stories very filmy, so many "nautankis" involved, so many obstacles, drama, thrill and finally the much awaited "wedding".

Ours was rather simple. Somehow everything fell into place, and we never had to face any such turmoils (Touchwood!!!). Ofcorse there are the inevitable "hurdles" like cousins, relatives, aunts, uncles, neighbors etc. But "love" can only be understood by people who have ever experienced it.

And then the most annoying questions like:
* In which language do you guys converse? (ooops its a tough math problem, pls help me solve!!!!!)
* Will you learn "tamil"? (this with a sarcastic grin)
* Will he learn "assamese"? (this again with a sarcastic grin)
* What would be your kids' mother tongue? (eye rolling smiley)
* Will you change your surname? (tongue out)
* Will you cook south indian food? (this with the expression of a charred vada)
* Will you become a veggie? (this with the look of a starving lion almost dead)

And after answering to a convoy of such annoying questions, there would be few more questions, and then some sarcastic smiles. Not that difficult actually, convincing our social, regional and cultural messiahs.

That was partly my experience. Coming back to the book, I loved the last sentence (Read: the baby belongs to a state called India). This is the most beautiful part of the book. Why can't we all belong to our country rather than only the states? Why can't we think as a single entity? It's time to modernize our thoughts, our opinions and beliefs. Since last 4 years I've been preaching this, and I'm so happy that there are others in this revolution too. It's time to wake up to a new dawn, a new nation, a new generation, a new culture which encompasses the beauty of all our cultures.
I re-quote: Love conquers all!!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

The journey so far....


Life is a never-ending struggle. Struggle can be for anything, sometimes for grades, sometimes for meeting a deadline, sometimes to reach the sky, and sometimes just to be happy.

But what is happiness? I really do wonder at times.

As a school kid, we always want to grow up, as a teenager we want to grow a little more, have a boyfriend, go on dates, enjoy college life. In college, frustrations regarding boyfriend, and then the competition for grades, and yea tough time in maintaining a camaraderie with roomies.

I remember the "hell" I went through right after my engineering. The constant wait for "doj" to join Wipro. Somehow the "doj" became the only reason for life. How I wish I could have been home a little more. Life was tough, and now its tougher.

Two years in the IT industry does change your life. I guess the vocabulary becomes really monotonous, rather lousy. Quoting some common words--"deadline", "alert", "acknowledge", "release", "billable", "free pool"......this list of horrendously boring words is endless.

But there are pros too. Somehow life becomes a routine. Not that I love routines, but yea I do love the weekend routine. The IT mantra of work hard and party harder comes alive during our long awaited weekends. Saturday nite parties and Sunday breakfasts at 1pm is definitely fun ;)

And then the constant pressures of switching job, writing GMAT, flyin away from the country and discover a new world..... as I said I really don’t know where the struggle ends, and where happiness lies.